When I was twelve, the city I lived in elected its first female mayor. As a young girl full of geeky teenaged hopes and aspirations I stood by and watched in wonder as the gender barrier was broken and was only slightly miffed that time had not stood still and waited for me to grow up and claim that title for myself.
That lady’s political and social accomplishments inspired my young self to become politically active, landing my accomplishments in the local newspapers for an impromptu political rally I organized but also finding my arse in the principal’s office after the rally went rogue and property was damaged. I ended up on a three-day school suspension for my part in the rally gone wrong.
It’s hard being a fourteen-year-old politician, yo.Â
My political career ended shortly there after but my passion for politics has burned brightly ever since.Â
I make no secret of the fact I want my children to be as ardent in their political viewpoints as I am, what ever they may be. I will love them just the same even if they do grow up to be like minded with their father and morph into kitten killing Christian conservatives.Â
After all, it takes all kinds to make the world go round. At least our family dinners will always be entertaining as we argue over political doctrines as we pass the mashed potatoes.
Yesterday I took the opportunity to share my passion for world politics with my kids and I yanked their little hineys out of school to make them endure the American presidential inauguration ceremony with me.Â
While my children may not have been as enthralled with the magic of the moment as I myself was and I may or may not have had to threaten to sit on them and duct tape their mouths shut while President Obama spoke, I hope that my enthusiasm for the moment will be remembered by them when they grow older and begin to understand the historical significance of what they witnessed while their momma hushed them, turned the volume higher and threatened to hang them by their toenails if they didn’t pay attention.
After the big event was over and my children were getting ready to return to the prison they call school, I stumbled around trying to explain to them the magnitude of the events just witnessed. I fumbled around while trying to touch on all of the important issues highlighted with yesterday’s inauguration while trying to explain how all of this is relevant in their tiny little rural lives.
But it wasn’t until I dropped my children off at the doors of the school and sat in my car watching the wee children tumble about in a nearby park that I understood why it was so important to me to have my children witness the day’s events by my side.
As I watched the little children bundled up like abominable snowmen laugh and chase one another around with the frenzied energy of the young I caught myself imagining what young Obama himself must have been like as a small child.Â
Once, not that long ago, he himself must have chased little children around in a game of tag or tried climbing the monkey bars to hang upside down or hurled himself up to the sky while pumping a swing for all it’s worth.
Once, not that long ago, he was not much different than any other child covered in dirt and sporting a grin full of awkward size gangly adult teeth as he laughed and played.
His parents had huge dreams and hopes for their children, like most parents do, but did they know they were raising the future hope of America? Did his grandmother know her grandson was destined not only for greatness but to be voted the future leader of United States?
I watched the myriad of children running and laughing like a pack of lunatics who had just escaped from the asylum and I marveled at how each and every child out on that playground has the opportunity to morph into greatness. Some children’s opportunities will be greater and more frequent than others but for right now, nothing is impossible for them if they believe and if they have someone behind them who believes in them and for them.Â
Somewhere out there, a school teacher is teaching the world’s next great hope and may not even know it.
Somewhere out there, a parent is raising a man or a woman who will change the world with their passion and their intelligence and the choices they make.
As I put my car in gear and slowly drove away from the playground before some eagle eyed mother wondered who the pervert in the idling car was and called the cops on me, I wondered about my own children and who they could become, who they will become.
Watching President Obama being sworn to the highest office a man can serve for his country with his wife and children by his side reminded me of something that had started to fade around the edges. Something I once knew instinctively but had let time and circumstances erode.
Anything is possible. The future is fluid, determined only by the choices a person makes. Circumstances and hardships can be overcome with a combination of hard work and inspiration.
I want, need to be that inspiration for my children. I want the choices I make as a parent, as a person, as Tanis, to inspire my children to reach for their own destiny of greatness, whatever that may be.
I want my children to know I have never shied away from making hard choices in my pursuit to do what I feel is right for myself, for my family and for the world around us.
I want my children to know that I believe in them. I believe they will succeed in the choices they make. I want, need my children to believe in themselves. To see a future in the world where barriers like socioeconomic backgrounds, race and sexual preferences won’t hinder the pursuit of their goals. I want my children to know that if they choose to, they can shine.
And I will always be there to polish them and propel them forwards when they need a little boost.
President Barack Obama reminded me of this yesterday as he idealized his own dreams, stepped forward in his own future and rose above the challenges of his past.Â
Yesterday, America reminded me, a Canadian woman, to hope and gave me grace to persevere in pursuit of my own goals and to strengthen the foundation for my children’s future paths.
As I slowly drove down the snow covered, unplowed streets of a faraway, insignificant rural Albertan town, I thought of all the children out there and the power of their futures just waiting for them to reach for it.
There are children all over this world destined for greatness.Â
Yours and mine.
Thank you America for reminding me of this.










Sammanthia
Beautifully put.
Miss Yvonne
Wow, this post is awesome!! I got a little teary reading it, even. I was so very proud to be an American on election day and inauguration day, and your post made me feel that way again.
Kyddryn
Awesome – you neve know whose future you are shaping…
Meanwhile, I dig your blog and the contributions you make to Blogopolis, so I gave you an award over at my blog – come and get it!
Shade and Sweetwater,
K
TinaBaby
Beautiful Post, Tanis. It’s easy to forget the potential a child has when you’re being pooped on, thrown up on, or having to repeat a request eleventy-billion times. Thanks for the reminder.
To Asshole McBuzzkill,
Most of us realize that there will be disappointments in this administration. There is a metric ton of shit left by “he that shall remain unnamed.” We know that President Obama is not the Messiah. We know there will be things he is unable to accomplish, but we as Americans see someone that is compassionate enough, intelligent enough & willing to get the job done. We have someone that is not blowing hot smoke up our asses and promising to do the impossible but someone that promises to everything in his power to make it better for as many people as he can. That our children (Black, Latino, Asian, Native American, and even White) have someone to look up to that started in a single parent home, worked damn hard through school to become lawyer and community organizer. So as I celebrate the achievements of President Barack Obama, I also celebrate the achievements of those that came before him and now when I tell my daughter (and any future children we might have) that with hard work, perseverance, and a thick skin anything is possible; I can & do actually believe it. I will also tell her that there are idiots in this world that will piss on something just because it hopeful.
Sorry this is so long.
Larissa
What a great post, Tanis… and you managed to summarize SO much of what I, too, hope for my son (and any future children I may have!). It is through watching and learning from the parents that children find their fuel and drive…
I wish that every child has the chance to feel this desire to BECOME.
larrylily
This week was like the scene from Narnia, when the winter spell was broken, and the …
nahh, thats too mushy
BUT
It does show that hard work pays off. The reason why HE is there and not HER is that she assumed that if you take the easy way out, only go for the states that vote for their primary pick and skip the caucus states where you have to work hard every day, and repeat the process the next day and so on, its possible.
He worked the hardest, and he won.
Great post.
GRAMPS
TinaBaby said i well. Were that Obama was the Messiah—but guess what—he is human just like you and me.
gramps
Sara-Jayne
Beautifully written, Tanis! I also watched yesterday’s historic moments, knowing that this could make or break the world we know. I am confident that my children can and will make a difference. And lord knows in Canadian politics, we need all the help we can get!
Major Bedhead
This was gorgeous.
Anurag
Wow! That was quite well put. Thanks for the warm glowy feeling.
Lori
Words can’t even express the magnitude of yesterdays’ swearing in. I saw a picture of him standing in a tunnel befor ehe walked out to the crowd. Just imagine for one second, being him in that tunnel knowing the whole WORLD is watching. In some way or another, the whole world is looking to him for leadership. I can’t wait to see the change he inacts and inspires.
Lee the MWOB Queen
You literally blow me away. This was such a gorgeous piece of writing that gave me chills and yes, I am proud to be an American. Always have been, always will be.
Your children are blessed to have you as their mama….what a voice you are.
Kimberlee
We definitely need to keep in mind that we are raising tomorrow’s leaders…or hope rather. We have the honor as parents of shaping the future by the simple virtue of being responsible for preparing little people for the world.
I have a feeling you kids will be among some of the most critically thinking and civic minded in their generation.
Devan
GREAT post! I had wondered if you would post about the Inauguration, since you from Canada and all (ha). . . but I knew in my heart that you would! It was a WONDERFUL, HEART-WARMING day – I cried too many tears to even count! And all this from a caucasion redneck in Kentucky – LOVED IT and SO PROUD and EXCITED for what Obama has the intellect and ability to do for my country! (And so GLAD that Bush is gone, watched until his ‘hell’icoptor had flown off JUST TO BE SURE!!! BTW, if McCain would have won, you and I would now be next-door neighbors!)
Bush Babe (of Granite Glen)
*Sigh* that was nearly as good as the Inauguration speech (or as one wag put it here: the Innoculation speech!).
I posted about it all too… but not nearly so eloquently as you. I maybe needed to see it live (yeah right – at 2.30am Australian time!). Enjoyed it but waiting for the real stuff to happen. Seems like he is off the mark pretty well today…
Great writing as alway!

BB
Petunia
Right on Tanis, thanks for this post.
P.S. good luck on the bloggie awards
vodkamom
Tanis- that was lovely. As a mother, you rock! As a WRITER, you rule.
Petra a.k.a. The Wise (Young) Mommy
Awesome post. Well said and so true. We need to make sure, as parents, that we are shaping tomorrow’s leaders.
And hope that we are not shaping tomorrow’s serial killers.
Fingers crossed!
Carol
“Somewhere out there, a school teacher is teaching the world’s next great hope and may not even know it.
Somewhere out there, a parent is raising a man or a woman who will change the world with their passion and their intelligence and the choices they make.”
This is now taped to my computer monitor in my 3rd grade special ed classroom. Thank you for helping me remember to look at more than the “right now” and remember the possibilities of the future.
mn
came by way of Mr. Lady. I kept my kids at home just so i could watch the moment with them. I had tears in my eyes while my 7 yr old whined, “Is it over yet?”
See we only have a laptop and I watched it online and telling my kids they’d have to pause cartoon network for a couple of hours.
I had tears in my eyes, I was happy. I don’t know if it registered to them. I always do think of how many talented wonderful poor kids in other countries just never get a chance…good post by the way